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COUNSELING FOR EXPATS & TRAPPED PARENTS:

Emotional and practical guidance to adapt to having to live in a foreign country in order to have regular contact with your children.


Expat Counseling & Trapped Parents Coaching


As the world has evolved into a more global society, there is an increase in the number of partnerships between spouses of different cultures.


More and more children are raised in bicultural households as dual citizens of both the nation of their mother and fathers. In many cases, the children are even third-culture kids (TCKs), raised in a country outside of either parent.


But when a marriage dissolves between two parents from different cultures, it often results in what is called a "trapped parent": a parent that is living in a foreign country and the only way they can maintain regular relations with their children is to commit to living in the foreign country.


When divorces are not civil, this often results in one parent no longer having the ability to travel abroad with their children to have relationships with their family living abroad.


This can be an extremely lonely experience for the trapped parent where there seems like no other solution but to give up their cultural identity to immerse into the culture of their ex-spouse.


We work with you to develop practical coping strategies beyond the self-exploration of most therapy, but to help you adapt to the new reality of making the sacrifice for your children by calling a new country home.


While the Trapped Parent is one extreme of living a life in a foreign country, the majority of foreigners living in other countries are immigrants.


Leaving your home country to emigrate to another country may result in loneliness and trouble adjusting to a new culture.


Counseling Today helps to provide guidance for foreigners living abroad, to help devise emotional and practical strategies to better your experiences living abroad.


Whether you are a diplomat on a posting abroad, a spouse that moved to the country of your partner, someone who has moved to a foreign country for the purpose of employment, we will work with you to help you manage the challenges you face.


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Expat / Trapped Parents Mental Health Session

$80

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